Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Writing...The Time Has Finally Come

*I am no expert when it comes to Montessori education, so my explanations may not be very good. However, I am 110% in love with Montessori education and believe in it more than I can ever express.

Writing. Coloring. Drawing. They all seem like normal childhood activities, but they never have been around our home. Ian has always said that it's "too boring." If Ian's body isn't moving, he isn't interested. This hasn't been an issue in school since the boys go to a Montessori house. The Montessori philosophy is "follow the child." What does that mean? It means that a child is driven by something internal to learn something new. A child won't learn to write if they do not feel the internal drive to write but feel the drive to build with wooden blocks instead. So, if the child wants to build with wooden blocks, they are allowed to do so because they are absolutely learning since they are engaged with the material.

Montessori teaches that there are sensitive periods where a child is most likely to be engaged in learning and mastering a new skill. For writing, the sensitive period is from age 3-4. This has come and gone for Ian. I have been fretting over it. I knew that eventually Ian would learn to write, but it just seemed like it would never happen. Within the last month his desire start writing and drawing has exploded! I have felt so relieved and soooooo excited. I have been doing everything I can to facilitate this new endeavor, and it's been going really well. Kind of.

The boys wanted to paint peg people the other day. They painted and painted and painted. Then the entire jar of purple paint got dumped on the dining room rug. While I was cleaning it up, Eli dumped the jar of white paint on the rug, at which point I had to shut the painting operation down. They were getting way too careless.

But it started out with such good intentions. Ian truly wanted to work with writing utensils so I said, "Yes, yes, yes, you can paint!" He's been carrying composition books around, sketching when the mood strikes him, even if that's in the produce department at the grocery store. <--happened last week

Before school today he told me that he was probably going to work on his fraction book at school. I thought that was fantastic as I've always felt he shows more interest in math and science than language (other than being read to everyday, which can go on for hours). But, when I picked him up from school, he had a writing worksheet in his book bag. This was HUGE! Never, in a million years would I have guessed he filled out a worksheet today, and he was proud of himself. I told him that it looked like he had worked hard and really concentrated while writing the numbers ( he's writing numbers not letters...he's Cole's boy). He confirmed that it was hard work and it did take a lot of concentration.

It might not sound like a big deal...my preschooler is beginning to color and draw. But I'm so excited to watch this new skill develop, and he can't seem to get enough.






Today's writing worksheet. Pretty exciting stuff.

Our project at home: drawing a solar system banner for Ian's room

Ian's Birthday Backyard Water Bash

Ian turned five! It was his golden birthday, and his first "friend attended" birthday party. All the kids from school came, and it was hysterical. We had wild boys running all over the backyard. We had a kiddie pool and slide, sprinkler, and 500 water balloons. It was so easy and simple. It was an absolute hoot!







He requested "Barber Garden" for supper

 Of course, both of them wearing hats sparked a slew of, "Are they twins?" questions


Happy, happy birthday, sweet Ian boy!

Swimming Lessons

Swimming lessons have come and gone. It was a great two weeks. My nephew was here, and participated in the lessons, too. Next year we'll do it all again.

















Neighborhood Weekend Away

I don't think I've ever mentioned this on the blog, but we live in the most incredibly amazing, awesome, super-terrific, fabulous, fantastic neighborhood in the entire universe. I'm not kidding. We will NEVER move because our neighbors are the best neighbors in the history of mankind. I'm not exaggerating either.

Our neighborhood crew consists of six households, and one of the families owns a lake house. Next door to their lake house, is one of the neighbor's parents' lake house. Over the fourth of July, the entire neighborhood spent three days together at the lake. We shared the neighbor's parents' house with the "F" family, the "S", "R", and "M" families shared the "M" family's house, and the "McGs" stayed in a hotel. It was a blast! Good food, good company, fireworks, and nothing to do but have fun. It was awesome.

Canoeing with Luna, the dog


Catching fish




The swimming cove

Diving board fun



All the neighborhood kids

Our five year old neighbor told Cole, "You look like a grandpa in that chair."

This is Eli. I honestly thought he had fallen asleep.


 The whole neighborhood. I mean, seriously, who goes on a neighborhood vacation?! Loved it.